Time to Delete Him? My Husband’s Dating Advice..

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Hey guys, Stevie here. Being a guy, dude, bro, man, whatever… we tend to operate in similar ways when it comes to dating (just ask my wife). So for the ladies out there, I’ll save you a little trouble and give you a few reasons why you should press delete on Bobby from Tinder, James From The Bar, or Michael “Babe” Jones from your life.

 
But first, here’s a cute pic of me and wifey at the beach last week. ha!
 
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1. He’s Flaky, like a Croissant
You know you should drop him when… he’s canceled on you not once, not twice, but three times. Third time’s the charm if you ask me. Time to finally say delete, delete, delete. Why? Let’s be honest- if you’re trying harder than he is, then he’s most likely not that into you. Was that too harsh? If it’s a NO even for a cup of coffee, then don’t waste your time, plenty more doo-doo heads out there!
 
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2. Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire
 
You know you should drop him when… you can’t seem to trust his word. Did he say you’re the only girl he’s talking to, but his Instastory is saying otherwise? Is he “going to his friend’s house”, when you actually saw him at happy hour? Sounds like a drama-filled episode of Cheaters. I always tell my sisters to trust their guts, and turn the other way if he isn’t 100%.
 
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3. Slow Down, Buddy
 
You know you should drop him when… things are going way too fast. If you feel uncomfortable, you most likely need to switch the gear in reverse. And yes! There is such thing as a woman taking the lead in a relatonship if you’re interested in someone, but you can’t push it.. you got to let it flow like the Nile, you feel me?
 
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4. Bench Status
 
My buddy used this term the other day and I laughed because I’m not familiar with all these dating terms as an old married man. 😉 So what does a bench warmer do best? You know you should drop him if…
a. He only hits you up late at night.
b. He only texts you once in awhile, and that’s when he’s got nothing to do.
c. He steady asks for pics… you know which ones.
 
Bottom line is – Don’t settle for being a bench warmer when you can be the star playa! Ohhh. #icy
 
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5. Cake- Having it, and Eating it too
 
You know I love cake, but we’re not talking about Betty Crocker here. You should drop him when… you’re using him! WHAT. Whether it’s an emotional comfort or physical – Keep the expectations mutual and don’t mooch if you can’t commit. If you’re constantly sucking the life out of your dude then maybe it’s time to delete him and check yourself too! #Dang #KeepinIt100
 
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Relationships are work, man! Thank God I found my wife! lol. That’s my advice for the day – I wonder if my wife would agree with me here from a woman’s perspective? Hit us up in the comments and let me know what topic I should uncover next. You can also check out a few previous posts from this relationship series my wife made me participate in below. Jk Love y’all. Signing out, #StevEASY #Rodrigo 😀
 
The real Love Story of how I Met Saz
 
23 Questions Game 


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  1. I would like to know what is the diffrence that women do to commit a guy. Some women are no nice and beautiful but can’t get a guy to be really into her, for a long period, maybe even for ever… But some girls just get guys who are superrrrr in love with them… What is it that they do? What do men make so crazy about them?

  2. I would love to know Steve’s version of your relationship and the struggles you went through to be with her on your side of the family. It would be really interesting to hear what Steve thought about Sazan’s parents disagreeing. What made you want to keep trying?

  3. Love when Steve Eazy~ makes and appearance! Ehat was greater than this post? The hashtags…#ClapBack2017

  4. This was such a cool post! It’s awesome to get Stevie’s perspective. On another note, nowadays girls are more sexualized than ever. Could you do a post about 1. Being yourself 2. How it’s sexy and 3. You don’t have to do things you’re not ready to do just to get a guy. I’m sure a lot of Sazan’s readers are young and impressionable girls. I think it could be of great help. Especially coming from a married and awesome man who has the best wife! Hugs from Texas!

  5. Stevie is hilarious 😂 This helped me out a lot, def dropping him. I loved this article, very funny yet informative!! Love ya Sazan & Stevie!!!! 💓💓💓

  6. Haha! Loved it. You should write more posts like this. Next topic suggestion: how to bring up the fact that you want to get married and not just as pass time dating without scarring him off! Hah.

  7. Thx for your point of view ! So important to hear/read it also from a married man.

    So what about keeping than deleting a man? 🙂
    When shell i keep him or truly believe him that he is serious about having or starting a serious relationship? İ just met a guy who is really into me and we are texting every day since we first met. (That was actually 5 month ago!!)
    İ had really bad experiences with guys who are promisng a lot but ain’t no action doing! Nothing ! So for me it is quiet hard to seperate seriously interested guys from “random” ones 🙁 can you help on this ? Or have any advices? Would be awsome to hear/ read sth about that from your perspective.

    Greets and huhs from germany*m 🙂

  8. Loved this! Can you guys do a friendship post? How to handle them and even after your married, how you maintain your friendships as priorities in life change and we grow up. Love u guys xoxo

  9. THIS WAS THE BEST BLOG POST EVER
    It so nice hearing it from a man’s perspective! I honestly was in a relationship for a 1 year and a half but I ended things with him 3 days ago because I was tired of his bad habits, such as lying! Trusting your gut and catching the red flags early on in the relationship is the best way to prevent yourself from getting hurt later on down the road, so I’m really happy that you mentioned that. I honestly look up to you two so much because you both seem like you’re both synchronized with your mentality & you’re both driven and healthy. Thank you for sharing this blog post with us!

  10. I couldn’t agree with you more! I just broke up with my “serious” boyfriend of 8 months. I could say he had a narcissistic personality. Wish I could’ve known from the beginning. How could I have though ?

  11. Hi Stevie,
    I love you two!!! I need your advice since I think you guys can relate and I have no idea what else to do. I am a Christian and my boyfriend is too. We have been together for 6 yrs and I am American but an orphan from India (altho I look like Im from the middle east or spanish apparently to people which is beside the point) and he is from Syria. Long story short his parents do not approve of our relationship and this has been going on for 5 years (when I first met his mom). They dont like that Im short, skin color or the fact that I was a nurse at that time. Now his mom is ok with the idea but not happy about it she feels bad. However his father is soo soo against it. They come from a little village where they are closed minded and only marry from the same village. I have been praying for so long and its only getting worse. Hes depressed and he fights with his family and then his dad literally throws a fit (putting it lightly) and its not good at all. My bf is not the same person and I know its stress and he wants to please his family and me. I tried over the years so many nice gestures even after all the cruel things his parents did. We now fight too much, I think we hit our breaking point and on top of that I am in a very tough PA program. I know God will get me through, IDK what to do tho? He was my best friend and I say was because all this changed. I dont want him to be sad or stressed or fight with his family. I also think their reasons to disapprove are not Jesus like. Idk if I should just step back and let it be?

    Any suggestions and prayers are greatly appreciated!!
    Blessings
    Ruby

  12. Hey Stevie, thanks for sharing this. Could you do a post on “20 things you like about our beloved S’ and what pushed you to put a ring on it?
    Love!

  13. Steve can you make a post about why men are scared to get married? Why are they so terrified to pull the trigger and ask their gf to be wifey when he knows she’s the one??

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